howilearnedtocope:

Mental illness is not your fault.

Mental illness is not your fault, even if there are things that can theoretically help. You don’t have this mental illness because you didn’t do those things.

Mental illness is not your fault even if you’ve been sick for a long time, and have had access to treatment that hasn’t helped. You are fighting real chemical and biological barriers that make this difficult, and it’s not your fault that it hasn’t worked yet.

Mental illness is not your fault even if you self sabotage sometimes. Those actions are a result OF your mental illness, they are not the cause of it.

Mental illness is not your fault, even if you play up symptoms. You want attention because you are suffering, but it did not cause your mental illness.

Mental illness is not your fault even if you are bad at taking care of yourself. Again, mental illness is what makes this difficult in the first place.

I believe that there is always reason to have hope that things can get better, and that eventually you will find a way to feel better.

But mental illness is never your fault. 

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juliastreou:

I wish you all a happy new year! I would like to say a big thank you to everyone who made it to the workshop this Christmas and supported my work. I am overwhelmed by this year’s positive response. By purchasing directly from artists and designers you are allowing people like me to continue doing what we enjoy the most! It is incredibly fulfilling to see that my work is appreciated!

Here is the White Arete shawl. Its cotton warp is left unwoven and interlaced in net-like structures. The design is based on drawings found on pottery (5th century BC) depicting the Odyssey characters.

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thynetruly:

imoverallofit:

He cookin

is that…a cat dryer..

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ko-is-an-insomniac:

agreyeyedgirl:

I have a NEW FAVORITE THING and it’s this ballad! 

WIFE OR KNIFE IM HOLLERING

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superhero-nerd:

stuckinthe-climb:

*plays assassins creed to study for my ap history exam*

This is actually really funny. In high school my humanities teacher told us a story about one of the Europe trips he had gone on with the school a few summers past. So him and the group of kids were in the middle of Rome and the tour guide had gotten lost. They could figure out how to get to some church they were going to see. All of a sudden one of the students like call attention to himself. He says he knows where to go and just start walking around the streets, taking back roads and side streets and within 20 mins they’re at the church they needed to get to. My teacher asks the kid if he has every been to Italy before. He says no, he just knew where to go because he played Assassins Creed Brotherhood.

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caffeinewitchcraft:

epicfangirl01:

softestvirgil:

melindawrites:

ittybittytatertot:

melindawrites:

ittybittytatertot:

Some of the best writing advice I ever got was if you’re stuck on a scene or a line, the problem is actually about 10 lines back and that’s saved me from writer’s block so many times.

I feel like I need an elaborate explanation

Often times, I find myself stuck on what a character should say next or what should happen in a scene to connect A to B or so on. When this happens, I fall into the trap of writing and rewriting the same few lines over and over, and becoming more and more dissatisfied every time until I give up. 

But problem is almost never actually whatever line I’m trying to write at the moment; the issue is the stuff leading up to the line. Maybe there are structural issues with the set up, maybe I wrote a bit of dialogue that was out of character leading to a discussion that doesn’t make sense, maybe I’m missing a vital piece of exposition or expositing too much. It could be a lot of things, but the important part of the advice is to look back and be willing to consider changes to something earlier in the work (even if you’re really attached to like a piece of dialogue or a particular sentence or something) instead of trying to find a way to force out a scene that’s not working.

That makes a lot of sense. Thanks for explaining!

This is really helpful!

Woah! I never thought about that! Thanks!

I one hundred percent agree with this! Sometimes, when I have really bad writer’s block, I’ll take an hour break and then sit back down to read the entire work over again. 

Whenever I start feeling irritated/confused, I put a notation by that section and keep reading. I mark where the rough patch starts and where it ends. Sometimes the parts after the rough patches are good, sometimes they’re not. Little rough patches are fine, but big ones will need to be addressed in the second edit!

When I get to the point where I’m in a rough patch that doesn’t end, I know I’ve found where I need to re-write. I go back to the start of that rough patch and copy everything from that point forward. I put the whole rough patch in a “graveyard” file (in case I need it later), then delete it from the main document.

Then I start writing again. It works 7/10 times!

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babyanimalgifs:

These pictures will make your day better (@tanryug)

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val-ritz:
“ dreaming-in-circles:
“ magickinmundane:
“ pr0dr0me:
“ licensetomurse:
“ meanwhileonwednesday:
“As a medical professional and a medically complicated human this is very important to me
”
That’s not wrong.
”
These are both true
”
Both are...

val-ritz:

dreaming-in-circles:

magickinmundane:

pr0dr0me:

licensetomurse:

meanwhileonwednesday:

As a medical professional and a medically complicated human this is very important to me

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That’s not wrong.

These are both true

Both are very very true.

These are both true, but more importantly, not mutually exclusive!

Say a patient comes in with chest pain. First time they’ve ever had chest pain. They say they googled it, and clearly they have cancer now!

…no. That’s the first example.

But say a patient has chest pain, they’ve had chest pain for 10 years, every previous doctor has checked for all the obvious causes, and nothing changes.

That’s a completely different scenario. In the first example, the patient doesn’t know what they’re talking about. The condition is new, their knowledge is limited. That’s why we have doctors. But in the second example, the patient is the expert, and the doctor is the one who’s new to the situation. The patient has done all this before, and is very familiar with the pain (condition, etc.) that they have. The doctor is not the one with 10 years of experience. They need to listen, because the patient actually has something they don’t know to add to the conversation.

These two things are not mutually exclusive, they are not the same scenario, and both doctors and patients (but mostly doctors) need to learn to tell the difference and know when to talk, and when to listen.

This is also *highly* relevant to anti-vaxers.

There is a reason that the entire section on dysthymia in my psychology textbooks is basically “this person has been living with this for years longer than you will ever have researched it. help them facilitate their own coping strategies.”

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mezstreep:

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figmentof:

awakecorgi704:

for-k-is-king:

under-the-arch:

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@under-palemoonlight

i’m gonna be honest i didn’t even read the tweet because i had to hit reblog too fast when i saw this guy’s name is “i like hitting police because i am homosexual”

can confirm that is legit what that says lmaooo

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arrghigiveup:

Chinese Kids Are Getting Their Parents, Their Parents’ Parents, And Their Parents’ Parents’ Parents Involved In A Meme

There’s a new meme in China, and it’s very wholesome. The challenge, called “four generations,” includes four generations of family members making an appearance, from youngest to oldest. A son would call his dad, who then calls his dad, who then calls his dad. And a daughter would call her mom, who calls her mom, who calls her mom. The results are super cute.

The videos are being shared on video app Douyin, the Chinese version of TikTok, under the challenge name, “Four generations under one roof.”

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This is legit the cutest and most wholesome meme omg

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